Dr. Jennifer Rhodes
Best Relationship Tips for Men
Work to move past your approach anxiety as early in your life as possible. Fortunately, this is a skill that can be easily learned and a good coach will work with you in public to tackle this challenge and build your confidence. You may wish to challenge yourself to start talking to 2 new people per day and increase your goal by at least 20% each week. Soon you will naturally be engaging with others and see new dating and relationship opportunities landing in your lap. I would also practice what to say to a woman who is being rude. Stay classy and be articulate when confronting her behavior.
You might say, “I’m so sorry I’m bothering you! My intention is only to be polite and friendly. I’m sorry if you thought I was looking for more” – and move on. She’ll be left speechless and your confidence will allow you to appear desirable to everyone else around you.
This approach works even better when you are dressed in a manner that reflects your personality and values – do not underestimate how your personal image affects a woman’s impression of you. Use it to go after what you want.
Dr. Jennifer B. Rhodes is a licensed psychologist, personal image & dating consultant, and the founder of Rapport Relationships, a bi-costal relationship consultancy located in New York and San Francisco.
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