Traveling couple: 7 tips for a healthy relationship

Traveling couple: 7 tips for a healthy relationship

There is love in the air! Arrange just to maintain a healthy relationship during your vacation by following our advice.

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couple traveling can be a unique experience that allows to maintain or even strengthen a healthy relationship. This also allows to test the limits and links to two face a new environment, new cultures and new challenges. Source of enrichment but also of tensions, there are some simple rules to follow to avoid the trip turns to disaster for your relationship. Here are our tips for traveling both as serenely as possible.

·       Start with the right person


It may seem obvious, yet! It is often said that travel makes or breaks a couple, and it's true. And while it is nice to build memories together is a real horror to travel with someone who does not fit you, if at all.
The trip will only amplify what irritates you already have at home, so ask yourself the right questions before you go: will you be able to live 24h / 24 together and to face the difficulties of the journey?


·       Prepare a realistic budget


When Pink Floyd sang "" Money, So They Say, is the root of all evil today "(" money is the source of all evil today "), they are not wrong. Nothing is more frustrating than being short of money during the holidays. Put you agree before you go and set a budget in relation to each of your desires.

This is the budget that will determine if indeed you will end up in a messy hostel in Barcelona , or you will burst into a beautiful hotel in Bali .
And even if your desires are consistent, define your priorities set on the budget. This will avoid problems when you realize your dream by flying over the Grand Canyon in a helicopter, engulfing one quarter of the budget!

·       Turn you agree on the share of each


If your relationship is not yet reached the stage "joint account", it would be good to define together what each will pay for these holidays.
Rather than create tension where one would feel frustrated to pay perhaps more than the other, it's a good idea to determine a common budget for activities and restaurants for example, while keeping each his side an amount for personal expenses.

·       Do you make friends


Whatever your level of privacy, you probably have not spent as much time together before. In addition, to meet others is not only a solution to avoid conflicts, it is also the possibility to open up to others and to new experiences.

And it does not always have things to talk about when you travel as a couple, the topics of conversation eventually run out! Making friends, listen to the advice of other travelers or simply chat with people from different cultures are part of the things we remember long after returning. Besides sometimes these friendships last beyond time and boundaries!

·       Separate yourself from time to time


After you have made new friends, you may also need to spend time both. But remember: be couple does not mean having to stay together all the time.

If your divergent interests please everyone from your side, one for shopping, another to try a new sport for example. Moreover, this is a time when the other fail you and the reunion will be even warmer!

·       Think before you speak


The hotel has lost your reservation? Do not like the attitude of the server in this restaurant? The taxi driver tried to rip you off?
These are things that happen. Do not take as long to your partner. Take a deep breath and think before you go out thinking that will not help the situation.

And though, if you do not succeed, step back and especially the time to apologize to your partner! The apology and communication are indeed the foundation for a strong and healthy relationship.

·       Put your energy in common



What you remember you said when you met (e)? "That's my half!"
Ok, this is perhaps not exactly that, but still, do you realize: you definitely each of the strengths that, when combined, will allow you easily pass all obstacles! You may have a negotiation, while your spouse knows make eyes for a table at the restaurant without having booked!

Make sure you highlight your mutual strengths. The trip will be even more fun and memories you will reap, the better!




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